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hrj ([personal profile] hrj) wrote2011-12-15 09:49 pm
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Farewell Cat

21 years is a very good run for a cat. For the last couple of years, Angel has been spending most of the time on her heating pad with regular excursions for food and foot-rubs. (I.e., she rubs; my feet.) But though she was clearly an old lady cat, she was in more or less stable health. This week, that changed. (Short version, probable digestive obstruction, but with other minor long-term issues including probably kidney misfunction.) After several days close observation, I decided it was time and took her on the one-way trip. It felt a little premature ... but then, with previous aged cats I know I've left it later than it should have been. I had a certain amount of self-pressure due to the upcoming holiday trip and not wanting to leave hard decisions to a cat-sitter. The folks at the vet's office were great. I came in all prepared to be defensive about my decision and the doctor said, "You know your cat. If you say it's time, it's time."

I spent the last hour sorting through items to be freecycled (canned food, unopened bag of dry food, unused litter, absorbent pads, recirculating water fountain after I sanitize it) and items to be trashed (box, opened food, grooming equipment, opened health supplies) and cleaning up the inhabited areas (including several stains, curtesy of this week's decline).

It's going to be a little strange not having a cat after 40 years of continuous cattedness but I'm not planning to get another one at the moment.

She was a good cat. She came to me with the name Angel and a reputation for an unfortunate fondness for small furry creatures (that were supposed to be fellow residents). In honor of that, I decided her secret true name was Melangell, after the Welsh saint whose fondness for small furry creatures was much more benign.

[identity profile] gmdreia.livejournal.com 2011-12-16 06:10 am (UTC)(link)
It's never an easy decision, and anyone whose cat had a heating pad and her own bathroom, is doubtlessly a very good cat mother.

I'm really sorry about your kitty.

[identity profile] vnend.livejournal.com 2011-12-16 06:18 am (UTC)(link)
Condolences. There is a friendly, but undemanding cat in a store I will be visiting tomorrow; I will give her more than the usual skritches in memory of your Angel.

[identity profile] dr-zrfq.livejournal.com 2011-12-16 08:41 am (UTC)(link)
Much as it can hurt, and as much as it sucks (because it ALWAYS sucks), sometimes you just know it's time. I'm glad you and the vet were able to make her crossing over as smooth and free from suffering as possible.

[identity profile] visc-lore.livejournal.com 2011-12-16 11:55 am (UTC)(link)
It *is* always a tough decision; I feel for you. Know that Angel/Melangell will be waiting for you across the Rainbow Bridge - hugs.

[identity profile] shalmestere.livejournal.com 2011-12-16 02:01 pm (UTC)(link)
Sympathies--Angel was a sweet old lady....
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[personal profile] cellio 2011-12-16 02:13 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry. It's never easy. You gave her a good life.

[identity profile] etumukutenyak.livejournal.com 2011-12-16 02:54 pm (UTC)(link)
My sympathies. Even the right decision isn't always an easy one.

[identity profile] elizabear.livejournal.com 2011-12-16 03:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Having had to make that decision 7 months ago for my own beloved senior feline (in icon), you have my understanding and my sympathy.

[identity profile] tekalynn.livejournal.com 2011-12-16 03:51 pm (UTC)(link)
My sympathies.

It sounds like she had a good life with you and was a happy cat.
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[personal profile] patoadam 2011-12-16 04:58 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry about Angel. Sounds like she had a good, long life.

[identity profile] d-salie.livejournal.com 2011-12-16 05:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Hard choice, especially at this time of year. Glad you both had each others company for so long.

[identity profile] falzalot.livejournal.com 2011-12-16 06:11 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry. {{{hugs}}}

[identity profile] khiemtran.livejournal.com 2011-12-16 07:18 pm (UTC)(link)
My condolences...

[identity profile] kahnegabs.livejournal.com 2011-12-16 08:41 pm (UTC)(link)
I am sorry you have lost your Angel. She was certainly a sweet old lady. I'm glad I got to pet her one last time at your open house. You know you made the right decision, but I also know how hard that is. Condolences and hugs.

[identity profile] kiria-dk.livejournal.com 2011-12-16 10:08 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry you had to say goodbye to Angel. I'm glad the vet was supportive and didn't make an already hard decision any harder. *hugs*

[identity profile] hunrvogt.livejournal.com 2011-12-17 03:09 pm (UTC)(link)
First off, you have my condolences, losing long time companions is never easy.

The willingness to make tough decisions is the hardest part of pet ownership - good for you for having the strength to do so.
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[identity profile] heleninwales.livejournal.com 2011-12-17 03:36 pm (UTC)(link)
21 years is a very good age (ours only made it to 17) and if the decline had begun, then it was better for her to go peacefully now rather than start to suffer. It still doesn't make the decision any easier though. :(