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21 years is a very good run for a cat. For the last couple of years, Angel has been spending most of the time on her heating pad with regular excursions for food and foot-rubs. (I.e., she rubs; my feet.) But though she was clearly an old lady cat, she was in more or less stable health. This week, that changed. (Short version, probable digestive obstruction, but with other minor long-term issues including probably kidney misfunction.) After several days close observation, I decided it was time and took her on the one-way trip. It felt a little premature ... but then, with previous aged cats I know I've left it later than it should have been. I had a certain amount of self-pressure due to the upcoming holiday trip and not wanting to leave hard decisions to a cat-sitter. The folks at the vet's office were great. I came in all prepared to be defensive about my decision and the doctor said, "You know your cat. If you say it's time, it's time."

I spent the last hour sorting through items to be freecycled (canned food, unopened bag of dry food, unused litter, absorbent pads, recirculating water fountain after I sanitize it) and items to be trashed (box, opened food, grooming equipment, opened health supplies) and cleaning up the inhabited areas (including several stains, curtesy of this week's decline).

It's going to be a little strange not having a cat after 40 years of continuous cattedness but I'm not planning to get another one at the moment.

She was a good cat. She came to me with the name Angel and a reputation for an unfortunate fondness for small furry creatures (that were supposed to be fellow residents). In honor of that, I decided her secret true name was Melangell, after the Welsh saint whose fondness for small furry creatures was much more benign.

Date: 2011-12-16 06:10 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gmdreia.livejournal.com
It's never an easy decision, and anyone whose cat had a heating pad and her own bathroom, is doubtlessly a very good cat mother.

I'm really sorry about your kitty.

Date: 2011-12-16 06:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vnend.livejournal.com
Condolences. There is a friendly, but undemanding cat in a store I will be visiting tomorrow; I will give her more than the usual skritches in memory of your Angel.

Date: 2011-12-16 08:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dr-zrfq.livejournal.com
Much as it can hurt, and as much as it sucks (because it ALWAYS sucks), sometimes you just know it's time. I'm glad you and the vet were able to make her crossing over as smooth and free from suffering as possible.

Date: 2011-12-16 11:55 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] visc-lore.livejournal.com
It *is* always a tough decision; I feel for you. Know that Angel/Melangell will be waiting for you across the Rainbow Bridge - hugs.

Date: 2011-12-16 02:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shalmestere.livejournal.com
Sympathies--Angel was a sweet old lady....

Date: 2011-12-16 02:13 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] cellio
I'm sorry. It's never easy. You gave her a good life.

Date: 2011-12-16 02:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] etumukutenyak.livejournal.com
My sympathies. Even the right decision isn't always an easy one.

Date: 2011-12-16 03:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elizabear.livejournal.com
Having had to make that decision 7 months ago for my own beloved senior feline (in icon), you have my understanding and my sympathy.

Date: 2011-12-16 03:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tekalynn.livejournal.com
My sympathies.

It sounds like she had a good life with you and was a happy cat.

Date: 2011-12-16 04:58 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] patoadam
I'm sorry about Angel. Sounds like she had a good, long life.

Date: 2011-12-16 05:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] d-salie.livejournal.com
Hard choice, especially at this time of year. Glad you both had each others company for so long.

Date: 2011-12-16 06:11 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] falzalot.livejournal.com
I'm so sorry. {{{hugs}}}

Date: 2011-12-16 07:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] khiemtran.livejournal.com
My condolences...

Date: 2011-12-16 08:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kahnegabs.livejournal.com
I am sorry you have lost your Angel. She was certainly a sweet old lady. I'm glad I got to pet her one last time at your open house. You know you made the right decision, but I also know how hard that is. Condolences and hugs.

Date: 2011-12-16 10:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kiria-dk.livejournal.com
I'm sorry you had to say goodbye to Angel. I'm glad the vet was supportive and didn't make an already hard decision any harder. *hugs*

Date: 2011-12-17 03:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hunrvogt.livejournal.com
First off, you have my condolences, losing long time companions is never easy.

The willingness to make tough decisions is the hardest part of pet ownership - good for you for having the strength to do so.

Date: 2011-12-17 03:36 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] heleninwales.livejournal.com
21 years is a very good age (ours only made it to 17) and if the decline had begun, then it was better for her to go peacefully now rather than start to suffer. It still doesn't make the decision any easier though. :(

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