I feel this (I particularly understand the Fantasy Canopy Bed with the full bedcurtains as a fantasy.)
I am not currently ready to give up the idea we are part of the SCA; for one thing, I really DO want to get back into archery, and our SCA archer friends provide a good anchor. But I do want to sit down with my husband and figure out which of the semi-abandoned hobbies we still want to do. For reasons (many-but-not-all to do with having kids) we have been less active, and our local group has also kind of shrunk, which leads to it feeling like there are fewer activities to draw us back in. Even knowing the growth-shrinking cycle has happened before, it can feel discouraging.
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Date: 2019-06-10 04:59 pm (UTC)I am not currently ready to give up the idea we are part of the SCA; for one thing, I really DO want to get back into archery, and our SCA archer friends provide a good anchor. But I do want to sit down with my husband and figure out which of the semi-abandoned hobbies we still want to do. For reasons (many-but-not-all to do with having kids) we have been less active, and our local group has also kind of shrunk, which leads to it feeling like there are fewer activities to draw us back in. Even knowing the growth-shrinking cycle has happened before, it can feel discouraging.