Pre-Retirement Fridays
Mar. 21st, 2025 02:34 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Today's major task for "pre-retirment prep Fridays" was an appointment with a Fidelity financial consultant. An actual in-person appointment (in Walnut Creek), which meant that I could use his facial and body language to figure out when we weren't entirely communicating clearly. (I hate had HATE doing business over the phone with no visuals.) After the hour-long phone consult last week, I was under the impression that today's appointment was to decide upon the specific details of how to turn my 401K into retirement income. I'm not entirely sure what *his* idea about today's appointment was. I have a feeling that I fell in an awkward mid-point between "has no idea what she's doing" and "knows enough to be a financial planner myself and what do I need him for."
So a couple times during the discussion I found myself asking, "What is the end goal of the things you're asking me about and presenting me with? What are the next steps in the process?" Because it felt like he was working very hard to avoid making specific recommendations, but whenever I started to discuss concrete specifics, I'd get presented with a basic-level lecture on How Things Worked.
I mean, he kept circling around to "based on even the most conservative projections, you can afford to live to age 97 with 90% confidence." But then he'd pivot to, "So what other sources of income were you planning to pursue?" ("Other sources" besides my 401K, my tiny fixed pension, and my social security. We did discuss my writing income, both current and projected, but I said I didn't want to include that in my financial planning due to the variability and uncertainty.)
In the end, we did manage to pull in harness and come up with a tentative plan for a mixture of two different types of annuities and the rest in one or more managed funds. I was hoping to walk out of the office with everything set up, but it turns out we can't move my money from the Bayer 401K into my prospective choices until my Bayer account is "inactive", i.e., after my last paycheck. Sigh.
So we have another appointment set for 3 weeks from now to lay out the specifics and set things up to be ready for a "push-button start" when that happens.
(I just had a really crazy thought that I might pitch to him. If I took a fraction of my retirement account and simply paid off my mortgage, it might make financial sense, because what I'd save in mortgage payments far outstrips what I'd lose in investment dividends.)
So a couple times during the discussion I found myself asking, "What is the end goal of the things you're asking me about and presenting me with? What are the next steps in the process?" Because it felt like he was working very hard to avoid making specific recommendations, but whenever I started to discuss concrete specifics, I'd get presented with a basic-level lecture on How Things Worked.
I mean, he kept circling around to "based on even the most conservative projections, you can afford to live to age 97 with 90% confidence." But then he'd pivot to, "So what other sources of income were you planning to pursue?" ("Other sources" besides my 401K, my tiny fixed pension, and my social security. We did discuss my writing income, both current and projected, but I said I didn't want to include that in my financial planning due to the variability and uncertainty.)
In the end, we did manage to pull in harness and come up with a tentative plan for a mixture of two different types of annuities and the rest in one or more managed funds. I was hoping to walk out of the office with everything set up, but it turns out we can't move my money from the Bayer 401K into my prospective choices until my Bayer account is "inactive", i.e., after my last paycheck. Sigh.
So we have another appointment set for 3 weeks from now to lay out the specifics and set things up to be ready for a "push-button start" when that happens.
(I just had a really crazy thought that I might pitch to him. If I took a fraction of my retirement account and simply paid off my mortgage, it might make financial sense, because what I'd save in mortgage payments far outstrips what I'd lose in investment dividends.)
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Date: 2025-03-21 11:56 pm (UTC)Definitely ask about pros and cons of paying off the mortgage.
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Date: 2025-03-22 04:31 pm (UTC)no subject
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